1、Complaining is like slapping yourself for slapping yourself It doesn’t solve the problem, it just hurts you more.
抱怨就像是为自己抽了自己一耳光而再抽自己一耳光。抱怨完全不能解决问题，只会让你更受伤。
2、It seems to be essential for our emotional well-being to not look back in anger and to focus on the positive when we are older.
随着年龄的增长，不要纠缠于过去不愉快的事，而更多关注积极正面的东西，这对于一个人的情绪健康是至关重要的。
3、An honest man will receive neither money nor praise; that is not his due.
正直的人既不收受他人的钱财，也不接受他人的奉承，这些都不是他应得的。
4、A day without hope would be unimaginably pale. There must be something to look forward to each day to brighten one s life and keep it out of shadows. To a person cherishing hopes every morning rises a new sun. Even if it is a fantasy or an illusion ， so long as it shows a ray of hope it still urges you on in pursuit of that little sparkle without letup.
没有盼头的日子是苍白不可想象的。人，得天天有点儿什么盼头，生活才不至于暗淡。有了盼头，会觉得太阳每天都是崭新的。不管是望梅止渴，还是画饼充饥，它都会激励你不停手中的桨，去追逐哪怕一星微小的火光。
5、Thats not to be confused with loneliness. Theres solace to be found in being by yourself and enjoying your own company. Alone time is healthy for your mental well-being. Why wouldn you want to hang out with yourself?
不要把独处和孤独混淆了。能在独处中感到快乐事件幸事，对身心健康都有好处。为什么不试着自己取悦自己呢？
6、In the labyrinthine city,we get used to viewing similar sceneries,walking the same roads,arriving at the same destinations.The custom makes people’s life unchanging.Custom offers you an ineffable sense of safetyas well as some kind of unexplainable solitude.And you never knowwhat you will let slip with your habits.
迷宫般的城市，让人习惯看相同的景物，走相同的路线，到同样的目的地；习惯让人的生活不再变。习惯让人有种莫名的安全感，却又有种莫名的寂寞。而你永远不知道，你的习惯会让你错过什么。
7、How many people are there now who still don’t understand that when people want to keep long and comfortable relationships, they should only depend on similarity and attraction other than coercion, use of force, flattery, unrequited sacrifice and self-righteous satisfaction by oneself?
“到底有多少人到现在还是不明白，人和人之间想要保持长久舒适的关系，靠的是共性和吸引。而不是压迫，捆绑，奉承，和一味的付出以及道德式的自我感动。”
8、The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
世界上最悲惨的事情是，太爱某一个人而丢失了自己，忘记了自己也是不一样的存在。是得，要帮助别人，但是更要爱护自己。如果你从没有跟从自己的内心，从没有为自己做些重要的事情，那现在就开始。
9、We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us.
我们也许会错爱过某个人，为某件错事而哭泣，但是不论多大的错事，可以确定的是，错误的人或事会帮我们找到适合自己的人或事。
10、If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
如果你对内在的自己不满意，那你很难在一段和别人的长期关系中获得幸福。你要先建立自己的幸福才能和别人分享这份幸福。
