一、春暖花开未必阳光,小乔流水也许安然,如你所愿,如我所念,我们,会让生活有自己喜欢的味道。我不会去抱怨命运的不公,生活的不幸,我只知道,我想要的必须拿命去拼。Spring may not necessarily be sunny, Xiaoqiaos water may be safe, as you wish, as I think, we will make life have their own taste. I will not complain about the unfair fate and the misfortune of life. I only know that what I want must be fought with all my life.
二、繁华尽处寻一处无人山谷,建一木制小屋,铺一青石小路,与你晨钟暮鼓,安之若素。越长大越发现,孤独从来都不是心甘情愿的,在熙熙攘攘的人群里艰辛的找到只属于自己的时光。余生祝福那个错过的你快乐幸福,同时也不要再想起我了。Flourishing everywhere to find a valley without people, build a wooden cabin, pave a bluestone path, with you in the morning and evening drum, like the vegetable. The older I grow up, the more I find that loneliness is never willingness. It is hard to find only my own time in the bustling crowd. For the rest of my life, I wish you happiness and happiness, but also don think of me anymore.
三、有了强大的内心,你才会做一个有自我,有自己的人。自己强大了,才不会依靠别人,而成为别人的依靠。With a strong heart, you will become a person with self and self. If you are strong enough, you will not depend on others, but become their dependents.
四、过去之于我们,是一本曲折起伏的书:或欢笑,或泪水,只是情节已被书写,无法改变。 但未来却是一只万花筒,拥有无尽的色彩和无数的组合。不沉湎于过去,不空谈未来。不论在何处,愿你把握现在,鼓起勇气,探索未来的每一种可能。The past for us is a Book of twists and turns: laughter or tears, but the plot has been written and can not be changed. But the future is a kaleidoscope, with endless colours and countless combinations. Don dwell on the past, don talk about the future. Wherever you are, may you grasp the present, muster courage and explore every possibility of the future.
五、我一直以为爱情是一场考试,只要我努力一点,再努力一点,就能拿到满意的成绩,后来我才知道,这个世界上几乎所有的东西,都能通过努力得到,偏偏爱不可以。I always thought that love is an exam, as long as I work harder and harder, I can get satisfactory results. Later, I learned that almost everything in the world can be achieved through hard work, preference can not.
六、人生十不做:不自恋,恰当评估自己;不偏执,剑走偏锋伤人害己;不自卑,自信的人生最美丽;不自我,自如地融入社会;不邋遢,邋遢难成大事;不懒惰,勤奋、勤劳、勤勉;不张扬,低调做人做事;不贪婪,知足常乐;不放弃,坚忍、坚强、坚毅。Ten things in life: no narcissism, proper evaluation of oneself; no bigotry, a deviant sword to hurt oneself; no inferiority, the most beautiful life of self-confidence; not self-conscious, ease into society; not slovenly, slovenly difficult to achieve great things
not lazy, diligent, diligent; not publicizing, low-key people to do things; not greed, contentment; not give up, perseverance, perseverance.
七、春风得意的浪子回头最珍贵,穷途末路的认错悔改最虚伪。愿十年后,我还给你倒酒,愿十年后,我们还是老友。走过一些弯路,也好过原地踏步。懂得越多,能懂你的就越少。The prodigal son who is proud of the spring breeze is the most precious to return, and the most hypocritical to confess and repent at the end of the road. May ten years later, I pour wine for you. May ten years later, we are still old friends. Its better to go through some detours than to stand still. The more you know, the less you understand.
八、往事越千年,人生弹指间。有些人也许辛勤的奋斗一生,也没能达到想象中的完美,但是人生的意义并不在于得到多少。人生本就是空手而来,净身而去,曾经所拥有的一切最终也都是拱手送人,不外乎孤独、寂寞。如果有一天,我们像流星一样坠落,也不必抱怨生活,因为我们活过;纵然人生叶落花飞,无悔。The more thousands of years the past, the more life flicks. Some people may struggle hard all their lives and fail to achieve the perfect imagination, but the meaning of life does not lie in how much they get. Life originally came empty-handed and went away.
All that once owned was eventually given away by hand. It was nothing more than loneliness and loneliness. If one day we fall like meteors, we don have to complain about life, because we live; even if life leaves fall and flowers fly, there is no regret.
九、时间不是拿来等的,是应该合理利用的。金钱不是拿来游戏的,是应该做些有意义的事情的。生命不是拿来消耗的,是拿来精彩丰满人生的。Time is not to wait, it should be used reasonably. Money is not a game, but something meaningful to do. Life is not to be consumed, but to be brilliant and full.
十、如果有人伤害了你,可以原谅他,但不要再轻易相信他。原谅是放过自己,而盲目信任却只会给他再伤害你的机会。人生四大悲剧:穷得没钱做坏事,熟得没法做情侣,饿得不知吃什么,困得就是睡不着!If someone hurts you, forgive him, but don trust him any more. Forgiveness is letting go of yourself, but blind trust will only give him the chance to hurt you again. Four tragedies in life: too poor to do bad things, too familiar to be a couple, too hungry to know what to eat, too sleepy to sleep!
十一、你是不是总是会为了某人不断修改自己的底线?不停地为某人找借口,不停地想去原谅。可是,傻孩子,其实他没那么喜欢你。Are you always trying to change your bottom line for someone? Keep making excuses for someone and trying to forgive. But, silly boy, in fact, he doesn like you so much.
十二、人活着就应该像齐天大圣,疯过,爱过,恨过,闯过,拼过,努力过,但从没怕过。有时候,连呼吸都是一种疼痛,吸不进来一丝希望,也呼不出去一丁点的悲伤。People should live like Qitian Dasheng, crazy, loved, hated, rushed, struggled, but never afraid. Sometimes, even breathing is a kind of pain, can not breathe in a ray of hope, also can not breathe out a little sadness.
十三、看不懂的书,没必要自己装作庸俗风雅地去读,尽可束之高阁。某一天,你会突然想起这本书,从书架上取下,觉得醍醐灌顶字字珠玑。我想这就是人跟书的缘分吧。人与人又何尝不是如此,不到那个时间,你怎么爱我,我都无法去爱你。不是你不好,而是我没准备好。There is no need to pretend to be vulgar and elegant to read books you can understand. Someday, you will suddenly think of this book, take it off the shelf, and think it is full of words. I think this is the relationship between people and books.
People and people are not like this, until that time, how do you love me, I can not love you. Not that you are not good, but that I am not ready.
十四、如果爱过的和离开的都曾是最美好的,那些未到来和没有相遇的就会是最适合你的。微笑和沉默是两个有效的武器:微笑能解决很多问题,沉默能避免许多问题。If love and leave were the best, those who did not come and did not meet would be the best for you. Smile and silence are two effective weapons: smile can solve many problems, silence can avoid many problems.
十五、我已经准备好了足够挡雨的伞,可是却迟迟没有等到雨的到来,这样的尴尬只是我漫长人生中的小插曲罢了。最长的痛,莫过于对生命意义的曲解;最大的错,莫过于对舍与得的错析;最深的悔,莫过于对世事的辩别的领悟。Ive prepared enough umbrellas to keep out the rain, but I didn wait for the rain to come. This embarrassment is just an episode in my long life. The longest pain is the misunderstanding of the meaning of life, the biggest mistake is the analysis of giving and getting, and the deepest regret is the understanding of the world.
十六、不为什么,就是喜欢着他。从第一次见到他 ,我就知道他是我一辈子都会喜欢着他。爱得那么忐忑,伤得那么透彻。你永远不知道那个爱你的人为你胡思乱想的时候有多难受。No reason, just like him. From the first time I saw him, I knew that he would be loved by me all my life. Love is so terrible, hurt so thoroughly. You never know how hard it is for the person who loves you to think about you.
十七、知道没有结果,却不愿意面对现实。有些事看得太清,反而伤神;有些人读的太懂,竟然伤心。只要脚还站在地上,就别把自己看得太轻;只要你还活在世上,就别把自己看得太重。很多东西,任你多么努力终归还是失去;很多感情,任你如何珍惜却重复着相同的别离。Knowing that there is no result, but unwilling to face the reality. Some things look too clear, but sad; some people read too well, even sad. Don take yourself too seriously as long as your feet are still on the ground; don take yourself too seriously as long as you are still alive.
Many things, no matter how hard you try to return, are lost; many feelings, no matter how much you cherish, but repeat the same parting.
十八、曾经的自己算是最有耐心的吧,对那些等不到的人,做不完的事都是在想,下一秒,没准下一秒人就来了,事情就做好了呢。可时间匆匆,无数的下一秒,消逝了漫长的岁月,而现在的自己耐心或许早已经消失殆尽,留下疲倦的躯壳颠沛流离。人心经不起考验,时间容不得走慢,和过去挥手告别,和现在握手言欢!没有谁会一直等着谁,过去跟美好,未来会更好,没准未来有你呢?可是如果时光倒流,我可能还是会迈着这沉重的脚步,沿着这泥泞的道路,跟上我原有的步伐,向你走来。但愿天下所有的过期不侯都会是以后的不期而遇!I used to be the most patient. For those who can wait, all the things that can be done are thinking that the next second, maybe the next second, people will come, things will be done. But time is in a hurry, countless next seconds, a long time has passed, and now their patience may have already disappeared, leaving the tired body wandering.
People can not stand the test, time can not tolerate slowing down, waving goodbye to the past, and now shake hands and say good-bye! No one will always wait for who, the past and the good, the future will be better, maybe the future has you? But if time goes back, I may still take this heavy step, along this muddy road, keep up with my original pace, come to you.
I hope all the expiration of the world will happen unexpectedly in the future!
十九、有多少人说好了要过一辈子,可是,走着走着就只剩下曾经了。又有多少人说好了要牵手到永远,可转身就成为最熟悉的陌生人。再深的感情也有底线,珍惜才配拥有。How many people have said that it will take a lifetime, but the only way to walk is once. How many people say they want to hold hands forever, but turn around and become the most familiar stranger. No matter how deep the feelings are, there is a bottom line. Its worth cherishing.
二十、抓得越紧,失去越多。命运不会亏欠谁,看开了,谁的头顶都有一汪蓝天;看淡了,谁的心中都有一片花海。放弃和失去,其实始终是人生的大局。不要以为得到了什么,其实人时时刻刻都是在失去,失去时间,失去生命,失去更多的财富,失去更多的机会。不要抓得太紧,抓得越紧,丢失的会越多。The tighter you grasp, the more you lose. The destiny will not owe to anyone. Looking at it, there is a blue sky on the top of everyones head; Looking at it lightly, there is a sea of flowers in everyones heart. Giving up and losing is always the overall situation of life.
Don think what you get, in fact, people are losing, losing time, losing life, losing more wealth, losing more opportunities all the time. Don hold on too tightly. The tighter you hold on, the more you will lose.